The last thing that you want is to be the one giving all your time, effort, and energy in the relationship and you are getting nothing back.
The last thing you want is to feel like you are last on his list of things to do.
There were other women managers at Google and Silicon Valley who are similar, but she was probably worst in terms of abusing workers and taking credit for herself.
My point is this: you can “win” at work but still be complete loser when it comes to your life. Girls in the bay area who work in tech often have this problem. I wish I could post pictures of the loser girls I”ve dated.
Back in the day, she would treat her workers like slaves, and only smile at her directors.
It was obvious and I remember everyone just hated her.
Often times infatuation (see my blog here) can get the best of us and we are blinded to the fact that the person we are dating is not a good fit.Think about it: she’ll be more empathetic, more skills, and more willing to learn.Dating a loser is one of the worst feeling when you are trying to build a relationship with someone.Talk at the water cooler or away from the office was always on her being tyrant.No one liked her, and she was kindly asked to leave a couple of years back (way after I left, I heard from a friend).But hey, its these 7 traits you have to look out for because anything could be under those book covers.Try to judge girls, at least after the initial sexual attraction on her behavior patterns. The sex is probably better with the girls who have more 3D personalities.Out of the couples I have counseled I think so many women overlook this aspect when pairing themselves with a man.He has no to goals and was lazy when you were dating him, and now that you are married you are wondering why he is still lazy and does not want to do anything.In a relationship you deserve better and you should want better, don’t date some loser who wants to get around to being with you when he feels like it.If you are lost on what you deserve check out my blog on a woman worth more than rubies.