They see themselves with you for that long and aren’t afraid of letting you know.
If this is the case, they probably want to be in a relationship with you. 10 grim signs you might just regret it] #2 They talk about being in a relationship.
They confront the person and are bummed when things end.
[Read: Talking to someone about the relationship – DTR made easy] So how many dates before relationship talks? Simply knowing when it’s the right time to make things official.
Being too eager to hop into a relationship is the main one.
They try to bring up “the talk” after only one date and then wonder what went wrong when they no longer text you back.
If they don’t make plans further than a few days to a week out, they may be keeping you at a distance.
I just want to know what you want out of this relationship? Don’t be like, “Oh, okay, we can be friends with benefits” and secretly hope he’ll change his mind. As much as it sucks, you may need to cut ties with him if things don’t go well.
Are you interested in getting serious or are you not looking for anything like that? Another important thing to keep in mind: going into this, you need to know what you want. Don’t settle for something you don’t want just to be with him in some way!
Basically, this is a conversation that needs to happen. They’re stressed because they have no clue what this dude wants because they’re too scared to say what they want. So, for lack of a better choice of words, man up and have The Talk with your guy after a few weeks of dating.
I know too many girls who have been hooking up with a guy they really like for months and are too afraid to ask him what he wants. No matter what happens, I promise that you won’t regret figuring things out on your own.