[Read: Dealing with jealousy in a relationship] You have no respect for your partner When you lose respect for your partner, you wouldn’t think twice about yelling at them or even scorning them for a small mistake, even if there are others around.
When you think your partner’s a loser, a worthless slob or a despicable human, you definitely can’t be in love with them.
You may love hanging out with your own friends and having a nice time.
But if either of you can’t spend a few hours with each other and don’t really care about communication and togetherness, there’s no hope for the relationship to survive unless both of you take the initiative to come closer.
It can be stopped though, but when you reach a stage where you question your own love, you do need a lot of work and effort to bring the romance back in the air.
When both of you are not in love anymore, a relationship that can easily succeed starts to become a burden of frustrations and pain.
Find out how to know if you are not in love anymore, and make up your mind on the next step towards happiness.[Read: Communication in a relationship] You’re jealous of your partner Are you secretly jealous of your partner? After all, if you are going out with an attractive and charming person, you are going to be awed by them now and then.But when the awe and envy turns to green eyed jealousy, the relationship starts to get shaky.You’d know you’re not in love anymore if your partner just doesn’t excite you anymore.You’re only interested in yourself One of the signs of a happy relationship is the unconditional love that both lovers have for each other.You’re constantly looking out You may have a nice time with your partner, and everything may seem perfectly fine on the outside.But in your own mind, are you constantly appreciating beauty and hoping for a chance encounter to cheat on your partner?You may like your partner and have a great time with them, but deep within, do you truly believe you deserve better?You may think you’re cleverer, better looking or just too good to be true, but if you’re in a relationship knowing full well that you’d leave your partner the minute someone better walks into your life, really, is that even love? ] No together time One of the main aspects that hold a relationship together is communication and togetherness.As the relationship starts to lose its romance, both partners start to become selfish, be it about sharing food, dressing up well or helping each other grow.When you start to fall out of love, you wouldn’t mind letting your partner suffer as long as it can be advantageous to you.