African-American Muslims, as well as Arab and Asian immigrants from cultures that practice arranged marriages--are now unenthusiastic to do the same for their own children.In an arranged marriage, a Muslim family usually investigates the prospective candidate further - talking with teachers, professors, employers, friends, family, Imams, colleagues, etc. It is a well-known fact that Islamic religious or cultural events are often segregated by gender?
In Islamic countries there are matrimonial brokers and agents who work to match the brides and bridegroom.Anyone who rejects faith, all his work will be in vain, and in the Hereafter he will be with the losers. Those who transgress these limits are the transgressors.Successful indeed are the believers; who are reverent during their Contact Prayers (Salat). Qur'an 23:1-7 They shall not reveal any parts of their bodies, except that which is necessary.So how are the young North American Muslims supposed to meet and marry each other?"Young American Muslims have come up with creative solutions to dating--and they fall into roughly three categories.At all times, Muslims should follow the commands of the Qur'an (-31) to "lower their gaze and guard their modesty...." Islam recognizes that we are human and are given to human weakness, so this rule provides safeguards for our own sake. Muzammil Siddiqui answers " Muslims should have good elations with all people, males as well as females. Akhdan are sweethearts or for a man a mistress and for a woman a lover.The Prophet - peace be upon him - said, whenever two strangers of the opposite gender are alone with each other, Satan becomes the third one between them. (1)It is a common thing to see a white woman marrying a man from a Muslim country.In the United States, parents are left alone and cut off from these networks.The more educated the girl becomes, the less contented a parent feels in arranging for her marriage.Islam has given this freedom of choice to both young men and women - they cannot be forced into a marriage that they don't want." You commit no sin by announcing your engagement to the women, or keeping it secret. Do not meet them secretly, unless you have something righteous to discuss.