Dating a divorced man with children will mean joining a new family, so make sure you’re ready for what that could entail.
I totally understood why he had to cancel, but the situation also reminded me why he and I could never work and why I will never date a man with children again.
Put the kids first Your new man’s kids will always come first to him, so don’t try to compete for his affection.
Even if you’re thrilled about the prospect of meeting them, be aware that you need to be the one to fit into their lives, not the other way around.
It was difficult for us to make plans because we had different schedules, and, to make matters worse, his daughter would get sick (or whatever) when we had plans.
The girls’ mother also had a demanding job, so she never seemed available to deal with her own children.