When I met my husband online, we were long distance for the first three months of our relationship. Ever gotten messages like “Hi or hey” or some sexual comment about the way you look? That’s why writing a good profile is also important. You’d be surprised how many women list they’re fun and positive, yet at the end list what kind of men should stay away. Unless you want to scare good men away and only attract douchebags. If your profile sounds cheesy and cliché, that is still 10x better than sharing one single negative comment about men. I get you need to tell everyone how much you love your kids and they mean the world to you. First of all any guy would figure that out by reading the Status section of your profile.It sucked because although we were very compatible texting and speaking on the phone, I couldn’t be 100% sure we had chemistry until we met in person. So first rule of thumb: once surface level compatibility is established, meet in person as soon as possible! However, I don’t want to get to that yet without mentioning your photos. When you write things like: You’ll only attract the very kind of men you DON’T want. This is the part that lists your race, height, age, location etc.
Not getting the results you hoped for from your dating sites?
Unlike most women who makes a list of what they want, don’t want, who can and who can’t message them. Yes you’ll still get player types message you, but you’ll always get those.
Thankfully they are simply a “Delete” button click away.
The important thing is you’ll be getting messages from good QUALITY men. I’m a huge fan of online dating and as you can see – it’s easy to make a few adjustments and get great success.
It’s also easy to do things WRONG and get little or no results.