If you find yourself waiting days for a reply or weeks for him to even mention getting together again because he’s “so busy,” keep your options open and don’t wait around for Mr. If he can’t step up to the occasion, neither should you. Save your energy for someone who wants to actually get to know you completely, and not just who you are in the bedroom. Dating is really tough and it’s not going to get easier anytime soon, so it’s up to you to weed out the jerks, the weak and the lazy ass guys before you get caught up in another disaster.
As hard as it might seem at times, you do deserve to have someone who actually treats you with complete kindness and respect and is excited about dating you in a real way, so keep working towards that by dodging the jerk bullets as quickly as you can.
Sitting on his couch and watching Netflix while he orders some sub-par take out food isn’t really a date — it’s just your typical single AF Friday night.
Andrea Wesley Andrea is a Thirty-Something freelance writer living in the suburbs of Vancouver, Canada with her long term boyfriend and ridiculous ginger tabby.
She first discovered her passion for writing at the age of 10 when she began filling notebooks with poetry.
You have better stuff to do than to date someone who’s lazy.
There are much better things you could be doing with your time than dating a guy that can’t seem to figure it out and doesn’t seem to want to try.